Christian Courtship

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Christian Courtship

Christian Courtship

-Bisi Adewale

“Marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled; but whore-mongers and adulterers God will judge”. Hebrews 13:4

Courtship is the period between the time a lady agrees to marry a man and the time they eventually go to the altar.
Courtship period is very important. It is a period when intending couples get to know each other in preparation for a colorful wedding and glorious marriage. And it is a period when intending couples must be very careful because many people have fallen into the error of pre-marital sex during this period.

PURPOSE OF CHRISTIAN COURTSHIP
Period of courtship is meant for the following:
• Preparation
• Prayer for the future
• Planning for the future.
• Openness
• Intending couples’ class/counselling
• Discussion
• Pre-wedding and pre-marital counseling
• Time of adjustment
• Foundation laying
• Knowing each other
• Goal harmonization
• Introduction
• Studying of each other.

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WHAT TO DO DURING COURTSHIP

o Togetherness- pray, decide, visit, plan, discuss, learn new things, worship, attend seminar, attend wedding occasions, travel, prepare, study the Bible and evangelise together.

o Write letters send e-mail, phone etc. Continue to communicate

o Have a common mentor

0 Attend marriage seminar, marriage school, fellowship and other Christian gathering

o Pray seriously for your future, children and wedding.

PURPOSE OF CHRISTIAN COURTSHIP
Period of courtship is meant for the following:
• Preparation
• Prayer for the future
• Planning for the future.
• Openness
• Intending couples’ class/counselling
• Discussion
• Pre-wedding and pre-marital counseling
• Time of adjustment
• Foundation laying
• Knowing each other
• Goal harmonization
• Introduction
• Studying of each other.

WHAT TO DO DURING COURTSHIP

o Togetherness- pray, decide, visit, plan, discuss, learn new things, worship, attend seminar, attend wedding occasions, travel, prepare, study the Bible and evangelise together.

o Write letters send e-mail, phone etc. Continue to communicate

o Have a common mentor

0 Attend marriage seminar, marriage school, fellowship and other Christian gathering

o Pray seriously for your future, children and wedding.

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