(1) Reporting: Majority of our married people are “reporters”, they have not learn to sit down together to settle their misunderstanding, instead of that, they do go round to friends, families, neighbors etc to report their spouses, thereby getting wrong counsel about how to deal with issues in their homes. This is wrong, only immature people can do that, if you are a true adult, you will not go around reporting your wife/husband to every Dick and Harry thereby leaking your secrets to outsiders.

- Pastor Bisi Adewale

In this edition, we are going to deal with some quiet but dangerous things that must be avoided in Marriage, which I call: ‘time bombs”. This is because if they are not carefully handled and allowed to “explode”, they can destroy, not just the marriage, but the home, children, business,’ career and even the lives of the couples. They are: